Ever woman should know what she wants in bed and how to communicate it to her partner. Many women I work with have never exercised their sexual voice and just go along with what happens during sex. They leave their sexual response in the hands of their partners- waiting and hoping that whom ever they are with will stumble upon that magic combination that will lead to explosive ecstasy.
One can wait along time to have an orgasm if they are passively hanging around for someone else to do the job for them. Besides it is not someone else’s responsibility to give you an orgasm. I often find that one can put the responsibility on their boyfriend, girlfriend or husband. If you don’t know what turns you on and are willing to explore the possibilities how can you expect your partner to be able to figure it out.
The book, For Yourself, talks about women’s sexual concerns just like these and this is just one reason I am recommending this it. Although it was written for women who have difficulty experiencing an orgasm I believe any women can get something out of reading this book.
If you are a women who is pre-orgasmic this book is definately one you should try on for size.