What Fidelity is Meant to Protect: Insight from Wendell Berry

Although he may not be a favorite of everyones, Wendell Berry offers insight on a wide variety of matters. From economics, to farming and marriage, Wendell’s thoughtful  commentary encourages us to take a second look at so many things we take for granted. Below I have included one of his quotes from “The Art of…

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Healing After an Affair: Questions to better understand cheating

The discovery of an affair can be devastating to both the unfaithful spouse and the spouse who has been cheated on. Deciding to stay together after infidelity is common among most couples. In fact, it is estimated that 80% of couples who experience infidelity in their relationship make the decision to stay together.   The…

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Tragedy, How Can It Help a Marriage

    Great tragedy, like an affair, penetrates directly to our most guarded areas, tearing away our protective ideals and comfortable apathy and leaving us vulnerable to the elements of our environment.  We are left to grieve the loss of what could have been.  “We could have had a marriage free of adultery”.   Many…

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Low Sex Drive

There are a number of reasons that can cause someone to have low sexual desire.  These reason can vary depending on gender, age, health, general welfare and so on.  Low libido can have a negative effect on a relationship when only one person is experiencing limited sexual desire. Below I have included a short clip…

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Disguises of Infidelity- The many ways we are unfaithful

  In our American culture we show great lenience for divorce, an event that causes immense pain and often a complete breakdown of loyalty, respect and trust not only between two people but the whole family; yet our tolerance for sexual infidelity is low and habitually takes an unwavering, punitive stance.   We measure the…

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