Sex Addictions Are Not About Sex: The Truth about sexual addiction

Is sex addiction* really about sex? Is any addiction really about the element to which a particular person feels drawn? People can become drawn to anything, and they do, for that matter.   Oftentimes when treating a compulsion we look to eliminate the symptom without looking at the cause. We look to stop the drinking,…

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Question to Ask Before You Get Married

I have included just a few questions that come up in premarital counseling. This is not a substitute for premarital counseling, however, it may be a good addition to seeing a counselor. COUPLE DISCUSSION:   1. Why did you decide to cohabit?   2. How long have you been living together?   3. Do you have children…

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Sex Addiction: What causes sex addiction?

I wanted to share this video of Ram Dass speaking on the subject of addictions. He has a very simple straight forward way of explaining things and in this video he gives some insight into what motivated people to continue using something even after it has proven to be unhealthy for them. Sexual compulsion is…

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