Healing After an Affair: Questions to better understand cheating

The discovery of an affair can be devastating to both the unfaithful spouse and the spouse who has been cheated on. Deciding to stay together after infidelity is common among most couples. In fact, it is estimated that 80% of couples who experience infidelity in their relationship make the decision to stay together.   The…

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Simple Marriage Advice

    There are  a few pieces of advice I find very helpful when working with couples in my office. People are often not as bad off as they think. The key is to get them to really listen to what is under the complaining.  Getting them to calm down so they can hear is…

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Tragedy, How Can It Help a Marriage

    Great tragedy, like an affair, penetrates directly to our most guarded areas, tearing away our protective ideals and comfortable apathy and leaving us vulnerable to the elements of our environment.  We are left to grieve the loss of what could have been.  “We could have had a marriage free of adultery”.   Many…

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