Finding Your Marital North Star

Often times when I work with premarital couples I ask them what characteristics they would like to see in their marriage. I encourage these couples to take time to think about what is important to them in a relationship, write it down and look back on in frequently.  I then talked to couples about using…

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Question to Ask Before You Get Married

I have included just a few questions that come up in premarital counseling. This is not a substitute for premarital counseling, however, it may be a good addition to seeing a counselor. COUPLE DISCUSSION:   1. Why did you decide to cohabit?   2. How long have you been living together?   3. Do you have children…

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