How Thinking About an Affair Can Help Your Marriage.

The sex people have with their spouse is usually much different from the sex they had when they were single. Many people would love to have better sex more often but few people stop to think about how things they are doing could be affecting the quality and frequency of their coupling. One notable difference…

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Change the One You Love.

One thing you need to know if you want to change someone. I often wonder how many couples start therapy with their main objective being to change their spouse. Most duos begin innocently enough stating that they have communication problem, want better sex, or would like to stop arguing, but as the time in session…

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The Number One Reason for an Unhappy Relationship is not What you think.

“Approach the game with no preset agendas and you’ll probably come away surprised at your overall efforts.”- Phil Jackson He never talks to me about his feelings. She doesn’t want to have sex any more. He should pick up after himself. She should appreciate how hard I work to support this family. These statements and…

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How Love Ruins a Happy Marriage.

Does romantic love have a place in a modern relationship or are we better off with a loveless marriage? Birds do it, bees do it and companies all over the world make millions of dollars exploiting it. I’m not talking about bumping uglies; I’m talking about romantic love. You can’t walk past a magazine stand…

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How Saying No to Sex Can Have a Big Erotic Pay Off with Your Marriage.

For many marriages that are struggling with a sexless marriage saying “NO” to sex may actually bring them closer to having an amazing sex life together. Media seems to bombard us with the idea that couples should be having hot-sweaty sex, multiples time a day- so its no wonder if our sex life falls short…

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